What's more important??

[Bulldog]

Discuss

[StuBee]

If you have the option then cash. Most women are slags, fuck them off and buy sex instead.




Stu

[butterfly_baybi]

A faithful parter is so much better.....

Whats the point in having someone who is not faithful.....that you can not trust...it just leads to lots of worry and a unhappy relationship.

Money can not buy love..trust and any of the other things you need to make a relationship work.

Money can also make people unhappy..if you have to much anyway...as they end up TRYING to buy love or even friends for that matter.

[KR15 MK4]

Money! plenty more women out there! although a faithful partner is nice to have!

[3i]

I'd sooner have someone who can have a wicked time without having to have a fuckload of cash tbh

you can buy sex, but u can't buy a decent personality.

[Natty]

depens how ya mean Faithfull partner ? there would be no point havin a faithful partner you didn't love and were just with them out of habit and fear of being alone, and so cash would be better.

but if ya mean Faithfull partner as in your soul mate, the love of your life, then they are definately more important than cash.

[3i]

:cry: if I had loads of cash I'd only end up dead anyway.

Would proper fucking just overdose cos my drug habit would come back.

[McPikie]

depens how ya mean Faithfull partner ? there would be no point havin a faithful partner you didn't love and were just with them out of habit and fear of being alone, and so cash would be better.

but if ya mean Faithfull partner as in your soul mate, the love of your life, then they are definately more important than cash.

That has to be thee most sensible thing I have EVER seen you post mate :D I bow down to you as i couldn't have put it any better myself.

Don't get me wrong, loads of cash is a bonus, but like it has been said, if you had loads of cash there would be women around you all the time................... How would you associate who was after your money from who genuinly liked you??

[Mike H]

depens how ya mean Faithfull partner ? there would be no point havin a faithful partner you didn't love and were just with them out of habit and fear of being alone, and so cash would be better.

but if ya mean Faithfull partner as in your soul mate, the love of your life, then they are definately more important than cash.

That has to be thee most sensible thing I have EVER seen you post mate :D I bow down to you as i couldn't have put it any better myself.

Don't get me wrong, loads of cash is a bonus, but like it has been said, if you had loads of cash there would be women around you all the time................... How would you associate who was after your money from who genuinly liked you??

Totally agreed with the pair of you... :wink:

[DNO]

Aye! agreed! Money can buy a lot of things but not love and true friendship!

Faithful partner all the way :!:

[pyro]

Its not an either or, its...what's more important. Money is more important. Without it, you can't do SHIT ALL, loving, faithful partner, or not.

Sort out the cash, THEN sort out the relationship.

[Shell]

A Faithful partner is so much more important than money.

Yeh having money is great but being happy and feeling secure with someone tops it.

The one wish i have; is to be happy for the rest of my life :lol:

[Natty]

Its not an either or, its...what's more important. Money is more important. Without it, you can't do SHIT ALL, loving, faithful partner, or not.

Sort out the cash, THEN sort out the relationship.

i really Pity you mate, seriously i do :(

whatever family background you have, or what relationships you've been in to leave you with this outlook is truly despairing.

I doubt you'll understand me or my post and its not a dig or trying to start an arguement, just me feeling truly sorry for you.

i honestly doubt you'll ever know real love or happiness.

[pyro]

That's the nature of discussion...

No matter how good your relationship is, if you're skint all the time, can't do anything, go out, buy anything nice and are always having to scrimp and scrape to pay the bills and rent, its going to do your head in.

Constantly having that stress in your life, will eventually put extreme pressure on your relationship as neither of you will be particularly happy people, despite being hopelessly in love.

Permanent stress on a relationship WILL cause it to break down, over time, until you're skint AND single.

[DNO]

Its not an either or, its...what's more important. Money is more important. Without it, you can't do SHIT ALL, loving, faithful partner, or not.

Sort out the cash, THEN sort out the relationship.

i really Pity you mate, seriously i do :(

whatever family background you have, or what relationships you've been in to leave you with this outlook is truly despairing.

I doubt you'll understand me or my post and its not a dig or trying to start an arguement, just me feeling truly sorry for you.

i honestly doubt you'll ever know real love or happiness.

:shock:

You know, I actually think he was being sincere then!
Good for you Natty!

[Mike H]

A Faithful partner is so much more important than money.

Yeh having money is great but being happy and feeling secure with someone tops it.

The one wish i have; is to be happy for the rest of my life :lol:

But the question is if you had no money, could you be truely happy even with the most faithful loving partner who is your soul mate?

I don't think you would, as to be TRUELY happy you need a bit of both, as far as I'm concerned no couple are a perfect match, as everyone is unique to themselves.

Could you be happy with no money at all? I don't think anyone could even if you were with the love of your life, as you would have none of the creature comforts that we ALL take for granted.

[Shell]

Very true. You do need abit of both and you cant live with out money but i would like my partner to be faithful more than having loads of money.

Being comfortable with money and not worrying about it and not struggling and having a faithful partner is a nice thing to have but your right about couples not being perfect but is good when there suited and get on well.

I couldn't be happy with no money. :cry:

I'd like to think i have a soul partner but its more than unlikely. Hope everyone does though :D

[3i]

noone's perfect

but that's what so perfect about people IMO.


Couples are like tetris, they may not be the same shape, but you can still get em together perfectly without any gaps.

I feel like one of those fucking dodgy pieces that u used to get though that never fitted anywhere without causin shit :roll:

[Natty]

No matter how good your relationship is, if you're skint all the time, can't do anything, go out, buy anything nice and are always having to scrimp and scrape to pay the bills and rent, its going to do your head in.

Constantly having that stress in your life, will eventually put extreme pressure on your relationship as neither of you will be particularly happy people, despite being hopelessly in love.

Permanent stress on a relationship WILL cause it to break down, over time, until you're skint AND single.

once again i feel only pity and complete dis-belief that soem people can live there life with that outlook :(

i 100% dis-agree with all that you wrote.

I do not feel comfortable talking about my family and life on a public borad, but i'll say some things to show why it is pity i feel for people liek you :

at 1 time my mum and dad worked 2-3 jobs at a time as we were very low on funds, and were close to losing our home and everything, they struggled to bring up me and my 2 brothers, but we wanted for nothing.

they would go short to make sure myself and 2 brothers had what we needed to be happy, and even that wasn't much.

So yes my mum and dad went through complete hardhsip with no comforts or cash, yet they are happy and always have been, they will never be apart, and i know in life no matter what happens they will always have each other and be totally in love.

so to me money really means absolutley fuck all, and if people feel the need to base there life around the pursuit of cash to find love, then i wish them the best of luck, but feel so sorry for them.

[Mike H]

Couples are like tetris

Yeah no matter how good you think you're doing, you know it's all going to fuck up eventually. :arrow:

Apologies for the cyniscism.

[DNO]

:roll:

Nice one Mike :thumbs:

[Shell]

Everything always does fuck up. :cry:

Even when you think you really no someone. :cry:

Everything always ends in tears :cry:

[DNO]

Hey come on! This is getting really depressing now! Cheer up people, get out, get laid or do whatever makes you happy! Celebrate new life with the R2C lot in the pub tonight!

[Mike H]

Celebrate new life with the R2C lot in the pub tonight!

Thanks for replying to my post :roll:

[3i]

It's all good and well saying don't be so cynical etc

I grew up like Natty. I come from a fuckin council estate in willenhall I've seen hardship but I gave my relationship with my ex everything I had to give. It just wasn't gonna happen, it really was like getting one of these

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in tetris, followed by

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there was no way they were goin together properly.


She was one of those who would have picked money though :roll: but then again she's also a twat.

[Natty]

Everything always does fuck up. :cry:

Even when you think you really no someone. :cry:

Everything always ends in tears :cry:

as said in my post if you bother reading it, thats BOLLOCKS.

some people just love each other with no worries or complications, and because of this money or anything else doesn't matter!!!

its because of the reasons i put above, that i can sit here all day handing out slander and abuse, beacuse no matter what you lot come up with back to me, i KNOW i'll go home to a loving family, and a great relationship, how many of you can say that ?

From the look of what you written and what you believe not many, os now i'll pity you, for most of you will never know just how happy i am for having love and knowing what it really is.

[D4N]

relationships dont always end badly, or end at all though.my mum n dad built themselves up from fuck all to now where we have got two nice cars and the drive a nice house and a comfortable life and they are no more or less happier than they were the day they got married, if you love someone i think you can make it work no matter what. :D

[beckys]

he dose have a point not everyones relationship ends in tears!!!

[DNO]

Celebrate new life with the R2C lot in the pub tonight!

Thanks for replying to my post :roll:

Sorry mate but I can't say whether going or not right now, so will see later

[3i]

In a society fuelled by advertising and fashion very few people will ever actually find what proper love feels like anyway, as they would much rather just "fuck and forget" fit people.

Abandoning decent fuckin morals and shagging in alleys after meeting 10 mins ago etc etc. :roll: people really fuck me off sometimes.

[beckys]

ok u do get the odd person who will want to shag the frist person they see but not everyone is like that!!!!

[Mike H]

back to me, i KNOW i'll go home to a loving family, and a great relationship, how many of you can say that ?

Besides the fact you live in Blackpool, look like Pugsleigh, are hated by half the internet and resemble a dwarf, you are a very lucky fellow to have what you do.

I would give a lot for a close knit family, something I've never really had. Although not unhappy, never really close other than knowing many relations of mine as aquaintences.

Plus my love life resembles the face of that guy who got torched in the Faulklands. :arrow:

[DNO]

Just be happy with what you have mate! Don't think you have much to worry about!

[3i]

I already gave up my happiness for someone else in the name of friendship. I've got mates who'd do anything for me but theyre ungrateful for what they've got.

I made myself a promise I'd never be ungrateful for that kind of thing.

But I'm in the same boat as mike H (the same boat that got hit by a cruise missile burning the faulklands bloke)

[Shell]

Natty your right bout some people love each other with no complications and stuff but there far and few between and if you have that then thats brillaint.

I no what Love is but being shit on knocks your belief in it. :cry:

My opion of relationships at this current time is they end in tears and yes thats not the case for everyone but thats my opinion at the monent for me!!
:lol: :D

[3i]

being shit on (not by an old man paying 35 quid a log either like u Natty) changed my view on everything pretty much.

I am pretty cynical and bitter now tbh.

[pyro]

once again i feel only pity and complete dis-belief that soem people can live there life with that outlook :(

i 100% dis-agree with all that you wrote.

I do not feel comfortable talking about my family and life on a public borad, but i'll say some things to show why it is pity i feel for people liek you :

at 1 time my mum and dad worked 2-3 jobs at a time as we were very low on funds, and were close to losing our home and everything, they struggled to bring up me and my 2 brothers, but we wanted for nothing.

they would go short to make sure myself and 2 brothers had what we needed to be happy, and even that wasn't much.

So yes my mum and dad went through complete hardhsip with no comforts or cash, yet they are happy and always have been, they will never be apart, and i know in life no matter what happens they will always have each other and be totally in love.

so to me money really means absolutley fuck all, and if people feel the need to base there life around the pursuit of cash to find love, then i wish them the best of luck, but feel so sorry for them.

Very similar upbringing, really, with one exception. I'm the product of 3 failed marriages. Marriages that failed due to money causing irreparable damage.

You're lucky in that you've got a good family but it doesn't mean you're right. It just means you're the exception that proves the rule. ;)

[Natty]

You're lucky in that you've got a good family but it doesn't mean you're right. It just means you're the exception that proves the rule. ;)

TOUCHE :wink:

suppose there is no wrong or right in this type of debate, it just depends what you've experienced in life.

[chell]

:roll: true
id have a faithfull partner anyday over money!!!!!!
me and the partner come from council est and all that. we ended up havin no money at some stage,and im probally gonna get the piss ripped
outta me for this but we had a time when fuckin lived off mash.
but im PROUD of myself for getting out of that crap.
we pulled ourselves together, got sorted.
now 6 yrs later, hes got his busness(sp?), we have a 3br house, 2 half decent cars, and 2 bloody great kids! oh yeah, an a puppy staff
comming next week!lol
:D :D :D :D

[Veilside_Rick]

we had a time when fuckin lived off mash. :D
Babe we have all had our lows, but we do what we have to, i`v had times when all i have had is beans on toast & egg on toast.

[chell]

least you had a bit of veriety. hehehe.

[ClUR]

money money money $$$$$$$$

[LoOnEy_LiAm]

Believe Money Don't Buy You Happiness!!!

In my experience I earn alot of money from work a year!! (last year 42k) my last 2 girlfriends have both decided to say they aint bothered about money they got their own... but then suddenly its 0o0o i like the look of this and this... it felt like only with me for the money!!!

But both cheated on me!!! so I am unsure which wud be best its a personal opinion but mine would be a faithful partner!!!

purely because I can confirm money doesn't make you happy!!!

[Braz]

ok, so i've been rich (and i mean rich) and i've been poor....and i can honestly say, money does not bring happiness, beleive me guys. ok it might show u a good time, but in the long run, it won't bring hapiness, someone who loves you for who you are, not what you've got, thats whats impotant.

[curly]

i say faithful partner cos money can buy you everything but not love or happyness

only faithfull partners cn do that :wink:

[DC]

Amazingly! I agree with Natty's original opinion :wink: , we seem to have found the softy part of the cruz Hazelnut! (as in hard exteria not looney... Although some might disagree) :wink:

[sweetcandi]

definately a faithfull partner!

[WALL]

i would have to agree the money would be nice but if you dont have any one to share it with there would be no point in having it and the saying goes love conquers all not money conquers all

[shrek]

money will only attract a self obsessed, spend it all on me me me whore, then go and fuck someone else behind your back, (sounds like a certain member on here :lol: )

a faithfull partner will keep you far happier

[sweetcandi]

ya gunna tell us who this certain member is :lol:

[Martine]

I'd definitely prefer a faithful partner. :D

My parents aren't together anymore but it wasn't lack of money that broke it up but unfaithfulness.


You don't have to be rolling in money to show love either.

[cavtd17]

That's the nature of discussion...

No matter how good your relationship is, if you're skint all the time, can't do anything, go out, buy anything nice and are always having to scrimp and scrape to pay the bills and rent, its going to do your head in.

Constantly having that stress in your life, will eventually put extreme pressure on your relationship as neither of you will be particularly happy people, despite being hopelessly in love.

Permanent stress on a relationship WILL cause it to break down, over time, until you're skint AND single.


I have just read this and it describes my life to a T, just how me and the missus are right now, but, we are doing all we can to get sorted.

having a 10 year loving relationship helps when cash is tight, but the stress does sometimes get the upperhand, so to me, the faithfull partner is just as important cos she helps keep me focused.

:twisted: would love loadsa' money though :twisted:

[cavtd17]

Hey come on! This is getting really depressing now! Cheer up people, get out, get laid or do whatever makes you happy! Celebrate new life with the R2C lot in the pub tonight!

My car may be my personal starship, but i don't hink i can join you on uranus.. :lol: :lol:

[DNO]

Hey come on! This is getting really depressing now! Cheer up people, get out, get laid or do whatever makes you happy! Celebrate new life with the R2C lot in the pub tonight!

My car may be my personal starship, but i don't hink i can join you on uranus.. :lol: :lol:

lol, I was wondering what the fook you meant then!!!!
Totally forgot that I put that! :lol: