Have you ever..........

[Mike H]

been unfaithful to a partner?

Not asking for details, only post them if you want to!!

Personally I've never cheated on any of my gf's although got blind drunk one night many years ago and nearly did. :lol:

[Happyman212]

I ain't cheated on girlfriend but the girl I am with I met when she was with my mate, once they split up me and her got together.

[curly]

i sleep with my dad

[DC]

Not the girl i'm with now, she my best mate as well as my wife to be, but in the past i've been like a dog on heat with anything that spoke to me, my ex used to think i worked 14hr shifts cos i used to go out after work with birds i worked with...
One night i got in at 7am, and as i was getting undress to get in bed she woke up and thought i was just getting up to take the dog out for a walk, so i had to put my clothes back on and go down stairs... I only stayed with her for the kids... Bad mistake... don't ever do it guys.. it's not fair on the kids. :roll:

[Happyman212]

Not the girl i'm with now, she my best mate as well as my wife to be, but in the past i've been like a dog on heat with anything that spoke to me, my ex used to think i worked 14hr shifts cos i used to go out after work with birds i worked with...
One night i got in at 7am, and as i was getting undress to get in bed she woke up and thought i was just getting up to take the dog out for a walk, so i had to put my clothes back on and go down stairs... I only stayed with her for the kids... Bad mistake... don't ever do it guys.. it's not fair on the kids. :roll:

Its not fair on the kids, but it is ok to Lie and Cheat to your woman???

[DC]

If you ever met my ex you'd understand... :wink:

[KR15 MK4]

no never have never will!!!!!!!

im going malia in 8 days with 13 mates :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:

[DC]

that's a lot of rubbers for 8 days.... :lol: :twisted: :lol: :twisted: :twisted:

[muncher]

pmsl

[WALL]

In my opinion its wrong if you want to cheat on them then you dont really want to be wi them in the first place. So never have Never will

[Shell]

Have to admit i have cheated but when i was younger, much younger, i was in school :shock: , i didn't have a clue really and didn't no what the effect would be but found out and defianlty learnt from it as its not nice and made me think i wouldn't like it to happen to me.

So yes i have cheated but learnt from it and will never cheat again!

I've had it done recently in the past couple of years and wouldn't wish the feeling on anyone! :cry:

Its not big and its not cool!
:lol:

[Tony]

The girl I'm with now kinda over laped a bit with the previous one. Only problem was that I was married to the previous one and the one I'm with now was her best mate. Kinda sore subject still!!

[Natty]

yep i've cheated.

So far Martine is the only partner i have been with that i've not cheated on.

Am not proud of the fact, yet am not sorry, its just life and means fuck all to me.

all my last partners were just there so i wasn't bored, where as i actually love Tini so its a different type of relationship in my eyes.

[DNO]

Never cheated on any gal, but always been cheated on!

Never trust so called "mates" :arrow:

[JDOOP]

i shit women like ther shit man


uze n abuze tha bitchz i say :wink:

[Shell]

How can you and can you live with yourself!

Do you not have feelings or something? :(



im blacl afta oll

Its I'm Black after all!!!

WTF!!!! :evil:

All i can say is your pure EVIL!!!!!

[JDOOP]

ROTLOTMAJOF

haha

[DNO]

Ignore J-Doop Shell, he's only 15. Thought he found his first pube last week, but then noticed he was pissing from it! Guys never had a bird! Just full of shit

[Tony]

Fuck off Jdoop, you know you don't cheat... VIRGIN BOY.

Your boyfriend will be offended to see you posting that shit!

[Shell]

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

[DAIhard]

cheated on 3 of em, i was with 1 for nearly four years and i think i slept with more people in that time than i actually did with the g/f

[Shell]

:shock:

[butterfly_baybi]

If you can find it in yourself to actually cheat on your girlfriend/boyfriend, the person that your actually supposed to love then your just bitter and twisted....

Why would you even feel the need to go out and have sex with some stranger when you have a girlfriend/boyfriend who can more than likely give you everything you need.

You men say you can not live without sex but in my opinion that is utter rubbish.

[DC]

Everything happens for a reason.... Sort of like pretending to be SOMEONE YOUR NOT ! eh Butterfly..... :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

[DNO]

FPMSL!!!!!!!! :cry: :lol: :cry: :lol: :cry: :lol:

[shrek]

If you can find it in yourself to actually cheat on your girlfriend/boyfriend, the person that your actually supposed to love then your just bitter and twisted....

Why would you even feel the need to go out and have sex with some stranger when you have a girlfriend/boyfriend who can more than likely give you everything you need.

You men say you can not live without sex but in my opinion that is utter rubbish.

hard to cheat on a pretend girlfriend :lol:

i can live quite happily without sex, just ask the ex :roll: , but i would never cheat on a girlfriend

[KR15 MK4]

Everything happens for a reason.... Sort of like pretending to be SOMEONE YOUR NOT ! eh Butterfly..... :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

:lol: :cry: :lol: :cry: :lol: :cry: :cry: :lol: :cry: :lol: :cry: :lol:

[little miss naughty]

me and matt have been together 3 years and haven't cheated...

if david beckham came along offering it to me on a plate then i mite consider it but apart from that no

[KR15 MK4]

me and matt have been together 3 years and haven't cheated...

3 years!!!!!!! have i missed the wedding!!!

[little miss naughty]

no you haven't i have been going out with him since i was 16, orrrrrr

[emalou]

hard to cheat on a pretend girlfriend :lol:

i can live quite happily without sex, just ask the ex :roll: , but i would never cheat on a girlfriend


Thats why your my ex. A person has there needs.


I have never cheated.
Never had the need to. Thats why Ann Summers was invented

[DAIhard]

sometimes you fall out of love, and besides love doesnt always stop you cheating, im so loved up now its unreal and the thought of cheating on her kills me

[shrek]

hard to cheat on a pretend girlfriend :lol:

i can live quite happily without sex, just ask the ex :roll: , but i would never cheat on a girlfriend


Thats why your my ex. A person has there needs.


I have never cheated.
Never had the need to. Thats why Ann Summers was invented


lol, half the bloody catalogue in her drawers :lol:

[damo]

ive never been faithfull to any girl ive been with (yes i am a twat ) i think its an insecurity thing im just trying to find one i want to settle with maybe im picky ?

[mattbuk]

I have never cheated...even though am gonna get some comments back on that

[DC]

Kinnell Shrek ! :shock: if she needed half the Ann Summers catalogue in her draws, you you need to start practicing with the tackle you keep in yours... :lol: :lol: :twisted: :lol: :twisted: :lol: :lol:

[DC]

And Emalou ! you must wear fucking big draws... :shock:

:lol: :lol: :twisted: :lol: :twisted: :lol: :lol:

[Bulldog]

I've never cheated on anyone but been cheated on. Worst feeling ever so thats why i'd never do it

[Mike H]

I'm actually shocked that 40% of people who come on here would/have cheated on their partner.

Goes to show that finding a truthful honest relationship is very VERY difficult to find these days.

My question to those who have cheated is......

Why be with that person if you are/have cheated?

[Natty]

My question to those who have cheated is......

Why be with that person if you are/have cheated?

numerous reasons :

one of them being i was with a girl for about 2 years and it was just shit, but i was too lazy to do anything about it, so ended up getting into numerous cruise slags (some of them bein mates bird's).
got to the point where one of the slags wanted a commitment, so i dumped the bird i was with 2 years, stayed faithful to the new slag about 3-4 days then cheated on her till she found out and we split.

sounds shallow but basically i don't like being on my own, and enjoy sex and get edgy if i go more than about 2 days without gettin laid.

But that was the past, am now in an AWESOME relationship :D

[Big G]

Why be with that person if you are/have cheated?

Yeh ive cheated, but it was at the stage where the relationship was on its way out.
Never cheated when i have really liked/loved the person i was in a relatioship with as i felt there was no need to.

[clare]

I must admit that i too have cheated in the past.......and i aint proud of it in the slightest.

Cheating seems ok at the time until u see all the hurt and pain uve caused afterwards and know its all ur fault and it could have easily been avoided. Having it done back to u is a horrible feeling too.

My advice......Dont do anything to anyone that u wudnt like to be done to u!

In a really good relationship now though and now ive found real love i can honestly agree that there is no need to go anywhere else. When ur really in love that person can give you everything u need/want and more so there is no need to even look anywhere else never mind go anywhere else! :D :D :D

[Blondie]

I've never cheated on anyone, nor would I. The hurt you'd cause isn't worth it.

[viki]

iv cheated and been cheated on, sometimes its easiar to cheat on someone than admit its the end

[Mike H]

So you cheat on someone rather than simply end it?

With my ex's who have cheated on me they have wanted to continue being with me and said it was a mistake......the only mistake however was me not choosing someone faithful. :cry:

[DNO]

Too true Mike, better look next time!!!

Better look to all of us next time! I doubt there is any decent ones left out there for us dude, we are destined to get slags :(

[Mike H]

It's just too unfortunate, as recently discussed all the women who are decent tend to go for complete knobs who will treat them like shite!

Come on girls explain.....why do you choose the ''players and bad boys?''

Or maybe Jam can shed some light for us? :wink:

[curly]

its hangin being a player

you dont know what the girl you bedding had done b4 u got to er

n it gets borin cos u start mising the little things you get in a relationship

thats why im so happy im with katherine

[shrek]

often wondered why the decent girls go for bad boys and playas, why? get used and abused rather than treated with care and respect

[Alty]

I have been cheated on and it’s the worst feeling ever, and when you try and carry on you think anyone who you get with, you tend to think the worst of them and that they will do the same to you! It takes you a very long time to trust someone instead of just telling you that they don’t have the feelings they used to have for you they hurt you even more, they don’t take into consideration the feelings you have for them. I think I am a nice girl and I went for an idiots its not intentional I didn’t ask him before I went out with him.

[Unicorn]

I only cheated once when i was 11, but it weren't really cheating because one was at my mums house and the other was at my dads, which one do i do? :lol:

[Mike H]

I went for an idiots its not intentional I didn’t ask him before I went out with him

lol

No but surely you can spot the stereo type of fool? Surely your mates must warn you, I know girls don't ask the ''are you a fool question'' but IMO it's pretty easy to spot them.

[Unicorn]

Burberry hat, talks like a scally, thinks he's "big n ard" when drunk

[Alty]

No because in the first instance when you first meet them they generally treat you nice. If he treated me like crap, I dont think I would of chose to go out with him, people say I am very naïve and see the best in everyone, He wasn’t anything like a scally or thought he was big and hard.

[Mike H]

Fair point......

Although most of the girls I know go for complete chav clad tossers, which is quite sad as they are decent girls, one of them described it as a challenge being with a muppet?

[Unicorn]

I'm only joking Alty ;) i know what you mean i know a girl that started going out with someone and he was sound at first and then he was a total d*ck towards her


I've noticed that too Mike, you get a really good looking girl with a good personality and shes with.....a completely ugly chav whos probably on the dole :roll:

[Alty]

A challenge? any relationship is challenging in itself you don’t need to go out with a scally stereo type just for a challenge!!! Any male is challenging enough to understand and comprehend how your minds work! He he! Its not all about whats on the outside it’s the inside that counts!!! There mighte be really gorgeous girls with great personalities but nobody knows how the are when they are behind closed doors!!!

[Unicorn]

I know...just being with us males is a challenge in itself aint it :lol: ;)

but we could say the same about you.....how can you spend an hour putting makeup on :P

[Alty]

I do not spend an hour putting my make up on! If I am going out of an evening then I will take a little more time and effort but hey we want to make ourselves look good, we generally do it to impress you males, take that into consideration please :P

[Unicorn]

:o thats right blame the opposite sex :P ;)

[Alty]

Not blaming you just merely making a comment :P

[KR15 MK4]

I've noticed that too Mike, you get a really good looking girl with a good personality and shes with.....a completely ugly chav whos probably on the dole :roll:

agreed! to much of that shit going on!

[DNO]

We have had this discussion many a time!

A lot of gals do the same but have no reason as to why, the worst is when they get hit by there "blokes" and stay with them!!! :x
Nothing pisses me off more!!! :evil:

[Unicorn]

I know the feeling, and no matter what you say they don't listen

[DNO]

or the answer is "I love him though" :x

[Unicorn]

Not forgetting the "well i started it anyway"

[curly]

We have had this discussion many a time!

A lot of gals do the same but have no reason as to why, the worst is when they get hit by there "blokes" and stay with them!!! :x
Nothing pisses me off more!!! :evil:

it really pisses me off that

the fact that girls actually take the beating of there dick head boyfreinds and they dont do anything about it

if i was a girl getting hit by a man

first thing ied do is throw him out streight on his arse and get an injunction on him so i know that he would never be able to come near me again

ts just fuckin wrong hitting girls :evil:

[Alty]

I wouldn't put up with anyone hitting me!!!

[Unicorn]

You forgot the baseball bat

Glad to hear it Alty, i hope you take a heavy object to anyone that does :wink:

[Alty]

I wouldn't stoop that low to hit them back or down to that mentality I would just get them done for it!!!

[curly]

but thats another thing

a girl could hit us countless times but if a man ever hit her once he would get done for it

even if the girl was going to stab the man and the guy slaped her he would get done

[Alty]

I totally agree with you some women can be just as bad but thats a moral issue i suppose!!!

[Unicorn]

It does happen, most of the time women get away with it because the men feel too embarrased(sp) to go to the police

[curly]

thats why the best thing to do if a woman hits you is to push them away

you cant get done for preventing the action

and pushing them away is not brutal force

[KR15 MK4]

i no this girl that went and booked a room for the night in a travelodge with this lad, he made her pay for it and when she woke up in the morning he had gone ahe was upset and all that bollocks got some lad to come out of work and pick her up!

the next week she did the same with the same lad! i was ready for hitting her myself because shes a stupid slut! although id shag her silly :wink: :wink:

[Alty]

well you all god boys on here with alot of respect for women

[DNO]

Yeap, hence why I am single, I aint a CUNT :arrow:

[curly]

its just lads dont like getting fucked about

[Mike H]

I'm just glad to see Alty doing no work and posting on here. Keeping up the RSA standard for internet abuse like meeeeee!!!

[Alty]

We are just so lucky shove aload of papers all over your desk, ring your mates and pretend to be doing work!!!

[DNO]

lol, sounds like a good old normal day to me :D

Even better, have 2 pc's on your desk and a laptop and it makes ya look like the best employee ever :D

[Alty]

that would confuses me bit of a blonde at the moment

[Mike H]

We are just so lucky shove aload of papers all over your desk, ring your mates and pretend to be doing work!!!

ROFL How true that sounds to me too. :lol: :cry: :lol: :cry: :lol: :cry: :lol: :cry:

[KR15 MK4]

well at my job today i had a complaint about me not being PC (politically correct)! oh well i go on holiday tomorrow wonder if i come home to my P45!!! :roll: :roll: :roll:

[Alty]

Lets hope no big bosses son decides he's into cars and tells his Dad half of RSA are on here

[curly]

if that ever happened youed have to kill him haha

[Mike H]

Lets hope no big bosses son decides he's into cars and tells his Dad half of RSA are on here

pmsl good call, I'd get a P45 with my morning coffee if that happened. :shock:

[Alty]

And me! Sat next to Vicky Spence (Big Boss) so I have to be extra extra careful!!!

[Shell]

Wow!!! Just caught up on my reading, some issues were brought up in this.

so brought it back up now

Have to comment on the hitting thing, i have been there and been on the recieving end of a lads fist and yes i satyed with him after having numerous bruises and strangle marks and my excuse always was "i Love him though" and i was just a silly little girl at the time (i no its only 1 and half yars ago) but i didn't think and it was my first love and i didn't want to loose him as i thought i coiuldn't live with out him but in the end i got stronger and was determined and so finished it my self after 3 years and became an independant women i am to day. I thought the sun shone out of his arse but am laughing last now. i think i was scared of being on my own

The younger you are the more you will put up with cos your so vulunrable at a young age.

I was very vunrable (sorry about the spelling)

:D :D

[Mike H]

The younger you are the more you will put up with cos your so vulunrable at a young age.


that why you got with Jambo? :lol:

[Melvyn]

FPMSL :lol: :cry: :lol: :cry: :lol: :cry:

[Shell]

Yep!!! :wink:

Only joking :D

[minimagic]

never cheated, and NEVER will, been cheated on and it hurts like mad so i no how it feals am not going to cheat on any one ever

[damo]

***quote***ive never been faithfull to any girl ive been with (yes i am a twat ) i think its an insecurity thing im just trying to find one i want to settle with maybe im picky ?

i am damo's partner and when he reads this i just wanna ask him if you say you havent cheated on me why write that! :roll:

[Mike H]

***quote***ive never been faithfull to any girl ive been with (yes i am a twat ) i think its an insecurity thing im just trying to find one i want to settle with maybe im picky ?

i am damo's partner and when he reads this i just wanna ask him if you say you havent cheated on me why write that! :roll:


:cry: :lol: :cry: :lol: :cry: :lol:

In tears.

Damo mate...never let your bird log in as you. :lol:

[corsa-scotty]

never cheated, but then again ive never had a gf long enougth to do.

have been cheated on tho, and i still hurt from it, however am still lookin.

[Jam]

***quote***ive never been faithfull to any girl ive been with (yes i am a twat ) i think its an insecurity thing im just trying to find one i want to settle with maybe im picky ?

i am damo's partner and when he reads this i just wanna ask him if you say you havent cheated on me why write that! :roll:

1 word for that really!

Cha-Cha-Chamowned

whos in for a massive fucking beating tonight!

you really should have made sure your missus wouldnt come on here first!